(This article, reprinted with
permission, featuring Elaine Goldstein
Goodman, class of 1956, appeared in The Columbus Dispatch on
March 16, 2003)
Nearing 65, matriarch remains a
whirlwind of activity
By Marshall Hood
THE COLUMBUS DISPATCH
Only
weeks before her 65th birthday, Elaine Goodman could be
contemplating the golden years of retirement.
Ah, the serenity of reflecting on a life filled with myriad civic,
familial and personal accomplishments.
She could be thinking about finally having time to bone up on her
bridge skills, work on her backhand or catch up on her leisure
reading.
Yeah, right.
“I remember asking her -- I just turned 35 -- ‘When is it that you
actually feel like you’re an adult?’” her son David recalled. “She
said, ‘I’ll tell you when I do.’”
Kitchen capers
On “appetizer night” in the Lazarus at Easton Town Center, the
prized 45 seats in the second-floor mini-kitchen begin to fill an
hour before “The Jeff and Elaine Show” at 7.
Latecomers drag chairs from the furniture department so they, too,
might learn how to make marinated bocconcini, shrimp frittata and
goat-cheese won ton.
Jeff Wyckoff warms up the audience with wisecracks; Goodman serves
as his straight woman and occasional foil.
All that’s missing are a house band and a “Stupid Food Tricks”
segment.
Goodman began her most recent career, as a “culinary professional,”
five years ago.
Along with the Lazarus gig, she does a twice-monthly segment with
Wyckoff on WSYX (Channel 6) and WTTE-TV (Channel 28).
Goodman had a crazy quilt of a resume
even before donning her chef’s whites at age 60: She spent 18 years
organizing special events for the Columbus Recreation and Parks and
Development departments, and filling the role of secretary for the
German Village, Italian Village and Victorian Village commissions.
She ran the Jewish Dating Service at the Leo Yassenoff Jewish Community
Center and the kitchen at the Martin Janis Senior Center. Along the
way, she had a job at The Limited and even conducted etiquette
seminars for fraternity members and grooms-to-be.
Then there was her volunteer slate: the Columbus Arts Festival;
Kobacker House; the Ohio Bicentennial Commission; the Ohio
Historical Society; Red, White & Boom and others she has forgotten.
“When I finished the dating service (in 1992), I thought I was
finished (working),” she said as she prepped for a recent cooking
class. “But I can’t not be doing something.”
Goodman isn’t alone.
Almost 70 percent of the people surveyed last year by Roper ASW said
they would work in their retirement years.
Commissioned by AARP, a public-interest group for people 50 and
older, the poll also found:
- 34 percent of those ages 45 to 74 plan to work part time,
for interest or enjoyment, during “retirement.”
- 19 percent expect to work part time for
needed income.
- 10 percent want to go into business for
themselves.
- 6 percent hope to work “full time doing
something else.”
- 28 percent intend not to work at all.
“America is in the midst of a population sea change,” the survey
concluded, “that over the next decade will give rise to a work force
that is both older and more ethnically diverse.”
The number of workers 55 and older will swell from 13 percent today
to 20 percent by 2015, according to U.S. Bureau of Labor statistics.
At the same time, the percentage of workers 25 to 44 is projected to
drop.
Perpetual motion
Goodman is an elfin mother of four, including a state senator,
as well as a 45-year sidekick to a politically powerful husband and
a grandmother of three.
Yet the role of the demure matriarch of a prominent family doesn’t
suit her.
“I don’t lunch with the girls,” she said. “I’ve always worked
because I wanted an identity of my own. And in this family, if you
don’t keep your identity, you get swallowed up.”
Her husband, Victor, is the lawyer and lobbyist for the Ohio
Building and Construction Trades Council, and former longtime
chairman of the Rickenbacker Port Authority.
Their son, David, has represented Bexley in the General Assembly for
five years, most recently in the Senate.
The couple, who moved from Bexley to New Albany nine years ago, also
has a son in San Francisco (Jeff) and daughters in Atlanta and
Bethesda, Md. (Julie and Arlyn).
Growing up, David became Mommy’s little helper.
“I was always hanging around the kitchen,” he said. “That inspired
me. I love to cook, and I think I got that from her.”
The siblings never strayed too far from the apron strings: They were
readily recruited when Goodman began organizing parties for senior
citizens at the Janis center.
“David liked to cook,” she said. “Julie liked to help. Arlyn liked
to clean up. And Jeff liked to eat.”
The senator is thrilled that his mother has developed her culinary
bent into a golden-years career.
He can’t imagine her as a “retiree.”
“This has really taken off for her, and she has such a good time
with it,” he said. “Seeing smiles on people’s faces gives her a real
sense of satisfaction.”
That sense fueled her matchmaking for the Jewish Dating Service.
“That’s when I made my place in heaven,” Goodman said with a laugh.
“But I like putting people together. When they need help, I can hook
them up. I’m a facilitator. It’s genetic.”
The etiquette class for collegians gave her the warm and fuzzies,
too: She dished out to the frat boys the finer points of dressing
up, interviewing for a job and ordering at a restaurant.
“Now that was fun,” she said.
“They were so accepting. And it gives you a wonderful perspective on
younger people.”
Gratifying role
On the sidelines, watching his wife assemble a frittata before the
packed Lazarus kitchen, Victor Goodman played the role of dutiful
husband - proud and - supportive.
Any plan to hang up her uniform and “retire” would be news to him.
“Oh, from time to time, she’ll complain, ‘Why am I doing this?’ “he
said. “But it’s the satisfaction she gets from doing this.
“Just look at her!”
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